Sunday, June 27, 2021

When Boredom Finds Your House

 Inappropriate and/or awful storylines, television has become boring and a waste of time. Now the Internet has become the same and downright dangerous for children and a temptation for adults. Yes, we can find good things if we try REAL hard. Remember when we were promised that the Internet would make life easier and tasks easier? For the most part, the opposite has happened. It's actually made life more complicated and is a HUGE distraction to education, faith and family time. 

Years ago, I basically stopped watching TV and turned to movies so I could filter what my family was absorbing.  There's been very low quality films being produced the last several years. Some are just ridiculous. So what do we do ? 

We turn, or return, to books for the sake of our brain matter. The good classics. Yes, books contain some very bad stuff too so be picky.  If you must wean your household's screen time, then WATCH the classics. I like to read them, then have the film as a reward. The age of your children will help you make this decision. 

Some of my favorites are: 

Pride and Prejudice (Kiera Knightly) - for mom

Persuasion (Amanda Root)- for mom

The Secret Garden

The Little Princess

Little Women

Anne of Green Gables


Some good films -

My Fair Lady

The Sound of Music


Suggest your favorites !




Thursday, November 12, 2020

 Night Night,

 Sleep Tight,

 Don't let the bed bugs bite.... 

This was something I've said many a times to my kids over the years. I guess it was said to me, because I've always known it. 

But in my fifty plus years, I'd never had bed bugs... until a few years ago ! I'm not even sure how this happened. No new or used mattresses or furniture. I wash all incoming clothing. After doing some research trying to figure out what they looked like, what the symptoms/signs were, and how to get rid of them I've learned a thing or two.  I hope my experience helps someone...

First thing I've learned is that I hate bedbugs ! These things are so tiny when young, not much bigger when mature and they HIDE in tiny cracks, behind electric faceplates, in books, anywhere !!  They look like ticks to me when mature. I thought I'd found a tick. Uh, not that lucky !

How can you kill them when you don't know where they are? 

Vacuum and spray the mattress, chairs, curtains, linens, pillows, floors, the entire house ! Wash and dry on HOT for at least 30 minutes. Heat kills them as does rubbing alcohol. But they keep coming back for snacks. They hide in every little crack, under electrical plug faceplates, in floor cracks, in the cracks at the base boards around your walls, in the cracks of the bed, behind head boards, etc. etc, etc. A lawyer in my state had them falling out of his clothing !! A metropolitan library had them, I watched a movie- The Intern (Anne Hathaway) and the business the main character owned had to recall some orders because an inspection found ONE bedbug !

NOW I know why ONE bedbug is such a worry and PAIN. There's NEVER just ONE. They look kinda like light colored ticks, almost flesh colored, but taller legs. When mature they're kinda dark, almost black, but very thin and kinda hard. They like nocturnal adventures. THEY CAN MOVE FAST !!! Get a spray bottle with rubbing alcohol BEFORE you start inspecting mattresses. 

My kid said " Let's throw the mattress away and buy a new one". WELL, that won't get rid of these devil bugs, because they hide everywhere. I also learned that they crawl into books, purses, back packs, suitcases, shoes etc... 

 I had already heard about bags, but books.... really? I buy used books. I have been for years though.

I've had lice three times. I have very long hair, so I'm cautious. I picked up lice from movie theater seats one of the three times I've had them. So, I 'd been to a movie theater recently- crap !! I always put my hair up, now I don't put my purse/ bag on the floor anymore. I also don't put it on fabric furniture. But if they get on your clothes? You've got a stowaway. To your car, to your house, to your BED !

So, STEAM, hot water,  hot dryer, rubbing alcohol kill s these devil bugs.  I used the poison spray from the local store. Did NOTHING, except cost me money and a wasted trip.

They will not die if left in a bag for a certain amount of time. THEY LIVE FOREVER, even without food. They will eat skin cells. 

Renting an apartment or house? HAVE IT SPRAYED FIRST and vacuum the crap out of everything, Be careful what you do with the bag. Vacuum bag needs to be thrown away after use !!! If you have a place to burn, burn those bugs and eggs.

 Wash the curtains, all linens, heat treat the stuffed animals, CARPET. I thought lice was bad, and it is. And at least bedbugs don't like our body heat so they don't live ON us. But what a pain in the acres !!

 I read that the US hasn't had a bedbug problem for about 45 years. That sounds about right. I'll let you figure out WHY we are suddenly having this issue again. Apparently, they don't like certain people as much as others or the blood types.... like mosquitos. They both love me. 

So, I learned how to deal with the bed bugs and I think I itch all the time now thinking about them.

 I HOPE this article helps you understand more about bedbugs and how to get rid of them.  Do everything again in two weeks as recommended. I suggest you wash linens every few days and inspect mattresses. Have rubbing alcohol spray bottle ready. Work your way to every week. Be careful while carrying contaminated linens and pillows around. Put in a garbage bag right off the bed.

I've battled the bedbug twice now, and I THINK I've won. Other people have had mattresses heat treated. Some have had bedbugs as a bonus in new or rented furniture. Some have had their entire home heated to above 160 degrees Fahrenheit.

BTW that nursery song/ poem is TERRIBLE. You can't stop them from biting- you're ASLEEP !  I never wanted to know that, but I try to see negative things as learning experiences, A way to help others. 

Please keep rubbing alcohol away from kids and the fire. If you have lots of stuff on the floor or under the bed, get rid of it ! Don't' let these devil bugs have hiding spots. 

Pray, and check every few days- DON'T wait two weeks. 

Keep Strong Mom,

ElainaMc 

Living the single mom life since 2003.

Friday, February 19, 2016

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Join the one you live in. You wont be approved otherwise. 

Update - Started college and was SUPER busy. 
Had a grandchild living with me mostly full time for about a year
Had ER surgery. Recovery took a lot longer than expected. 
Then, had to leave work for ER. Really? and again.  Had to stop.
Its been a few rough years. Sorry, I wasn't posting much.
Life happens !

Friday, August 15, 2014

And again..


Had an eye injury... I hope to get back to regular posts now.

Update - I had sand, from a city pile near my home, blow into my eyes. I was wearing glasses. I couldn't get it all out, so I went to the ER. They lie you on the flat of your back and put liquid in your eye. The sand goes DOWN. They couldn't see it. So, back home. 
After MUCH pain, back to the ER. I had a 2cm x 2cm HOLE in my cornea. Thanks neglectful city !!! 
That HURT. Thank God it grew back. I refused surgery. Ewwww. 
I couldn't drive, look down for any reason, light hurt me. not nice. I've given birth four times. Not most painful thing, eye is.

Thursday, April 3, 2014

Original Facebook Group

https://www.facebook.com/groups/34291676927/ Lots of original members were dumped when FB decided to change our group organization genre... Anyway, we are still there and building again. Please join us!

Seeking Funds for Official Non-Profit Status

I want to be able to help my fellow, local single moms without asking a church to accept donations for me.

I need funds to become an official 501 (c) 3.

I help single moms every day that are struggling, but I am a working, single mom so I can't help as much as I would like. 

Being able to accept tax deductible donations would be a great start. 

I helped a mom a few years ago. Her child needed wipes, nutrition drinks, etc to help care for a medical issues. These needs were meet by a Local Wal-Mart, but I had to ask a local church member to have his church accept the donation, then give it to him so it could be delivered to the mom. MY church declined. WOW.

 I want to make life easier and simpler in this area. Please consider helping, so that I may help others more efficiently and quicker. Thank you. - See more at: http://www.youcaring.com/nonprofits/funding-for-official-non-profit-status/158679#sthash.9BGdakfT.dpuf

Wednesday, April 2, 2014

Current Activities WSM

@WeSingleMomsOK - activities ongoing 2014 

Check Craigslist daily M-F for posts by single moms. 
Suggest resources and advice for help they are needing. 

 @WeShareAHouse 
 Suggesting single moms to share housing through CoAbode.com or by finding a match on one of our webpages. I think I've helped two local moms and families find a housing match. Helping one convert her house into a Duplex for additional income opportunity. I'm doing the same to my house - same reason. I am also a single mom and I've shared my house with other single moms that needed a few weeks until they found housing. 

 @Jobs4SingleMoms

 In March, helped a single mom find online work just after she was let go from a job. (I've worked on that website for over a year now, so I trust it.) Also suggested she contact the Fair Labor Board. 

 I'm trying to help two other single moms locate jobs that fit their needs.

 @WeSingleMoms 

 Awareness of single moms needs, resources, finding news and articles pertaining to single mom lives. 

Also have been working to find volunteers from other states/regions to help with some of the above mentioned activities in their local areas. BLOGGER , G+, FB, @Twitter, LinkedIN = JOIN US!